Time flies

Without realising, you're being by my side for nearly 4 months. Caring, loving and being a good advisor and a great karaoke partner to me. Sometimes I really don't know how to response to what you've done to me. As an advisor, you've never given up even though you knew that I'm not an easy going and a very stubborn girl since the past six years. As a friend, I'm so touched by every single thing you've said and done to me.

As a singing partner, hhmm... I really never found someone just like you. But I think we've spent too much in karaoke especially with my aunty and friends. Oh ya... you're a great chinese teacher to me too. To me only lah... But don't expect me to be your english teacher! No... no... :P

I'm sorry because you know that I'm actually responded not the way you wanted in purpose. I really don't know what can I do to this matter because I'm kind of blur and I found it funny just the way it is. Sorry lah. I believe it will be a time when we will know the answer on what we should do. Patience could make things great. At least a little better.

OohhH~~ Pregnant!!

I really wonder what is happening to the people around me. Especially my aunty. Yes, I'm 23 this year. But what is wrong with a 23 year-old girl without a boyfriend and not married yet? So what mostly of my friends are getting married and pregnant and some even have a few kids.

Sigh... Understandable. When someone gets older will start asking for what other people had but she doesn't. All my sisters were speechless about this matter. Guess what our aunty said to us...
"You see you all!! So what all of your grown so pretty but don't know how to get pregnant and no one wants?". Hehe... We and my cousin (aunty's daughter) looked at her and replied "What is wrong with that?" Aiyoo... No boyfriend how to get married? No husband how to get pregnant? No money how to raise a child? At least let us earn more money first lah...

Today, I went dinner alone with my aunty in Pizza Hut, Maluri. She talked so much. Keep asking me to get married. Saying "Now you think you're still young but what about 2-3 years later?" Sighs... "Don't you worry when you get older and no one wants you?" Haha.. :P What she wants the most is a grandchild.

In Lee's family, all together we have 4 sisters. Youngest is just 16 so she didn't ask much from her. But the 29, 23 and 22... She said the 22 year-old will surely get married. But the two elder ones... "sigh... hopeless! wait 'sip jou lar' lah!!" Haha... I don't know whether to keep this as a joke or a serious matter.

What about marrying a rich man? :P

She is tired

Greetings!

Hmm... How shall I start? Okay... Thanks for visiting my blog so faithfully these few weeks though it was a month since my last post. Finally a post.

What I want to talk about is about this couple. They've been together for more than 10 years. They're all fine and have most caring for each other though they always quarrel because of a small matter. The woman will always want to commit suicide and the man always worried. Their family members were always there to help them but it seems to be useless. Their relationship is getting worse and worse.

I believe none of use would like to see your partner always threaten you with his life. The man finally felt disappointed with the woman and started to lie to the woman. The woman always look for her family member and asked for advice but no matter what they say she'll not follow or listen to their advice.

There's this girl in their family was so concern about them and always cried and nearly lose her job because of them. She always need to rush all the way from the office to them while working to stop them from quarrelling. But things never gets better. She has nothing to say about this. Finally a day she nearly broke down and cried for few days. Her aunty whom loves her so much as her own daughter was so sad to see her crying so much and done so much for this couple but in the end hurting herself so much.

Her aunty advised her not to do or care too much for there's nothing she could do to this couple anymore. They have to resolve everything on their own. She didn't say anything just cried and ran away from her aunty. The next day, she went to church and thought she was fine. A friend sitting beside her asked her to pray and she said "will get nothing in the end because this wasn't the first time". So she stood there and prayed as usual. Suddenly she heard Him said "For the one with family matters and doesn't know how to resolve it, I know you've done so much and you've down your best. I can see that. Just show your love to them..." She opened her eyes and saw the pastor looking at her. She couldn't say a single word and cried. "Yes, Lord, thank You".

Does that mean she has really let go and let God? Prayfully she is. Can see that there's not much changes for that couple but for sure she still care for them as before. It's just that she doesn't talk much as before anymore because she's so tired. When will she gets better? Sighs...